Saturday, 6 February 2016

The Romantic Spectrum

  The romantic spectrum is the spectrum of romantic orientation. A romantic orientation is who you are romantically attracted to, it is not the same as sexuality, which is your sexual attraction. Many romantic orientations have the same prefixes as their corresponding sexuality and they often share the same pride flags. For many people their sexuality and romantic attraction line up, but with many- if not all people on the asexual spectrum, they differ.

  If you remember the definitions from my post on the asexual spectrum you will recall the differences in sexual and romantic attraction. But I'm going to recap them:

  Sexual attraction- wanting that person to touch you

  Romantic attraction- wanting a romantic relationship with that person

  Now, on to business, once again, these are very brief explanations, I hope to expand on them further as I continue and learn more.

  Akioromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction, but having no desire for those feelings to be reciprocated, isn't often shortened to avoid confusion with akiosexuality.

  Aromantic

Not experiencing romantic attraction at all, often shortened to 'aro'.


Source: Aromanticnerd
The aro pride flag

  Biromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction to both men and women, it isn't often shortened to avoid confusion with bisexuality.

Source: Bisexualftw
This is the bisexual pride flag, but the colours remain the same for the biromantic flag



  Cupioromantic

Not experiencing romantic attraction but still desiring a romantic relationship. This orientation doesn't have a flag yet, let me know if you find one!

  Demiromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction but only after a close emotional bond has formed.

Source: Pinterest
This is the demisexual pride flag, but the colours remain the same.

  Grey-romantic

Experiencing romantic attraction but not often, just like with grey-asexuality, it is often at such low levels it is ignorable or hard to realize. Just like grey-asexuality this orientation does not have a pride flag, again, if you find one let me know!

  Heteroromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction to those of the opposite gender. Note: people who are heteroromantic are not automatically straight. Which is a common misconception of many, even those in the asexual community. This orientation does not have a pride flag, but if you find one, let me know!

  Homoromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction to those of the same gender.

Source: Wikipedia
This is the gay pride flag, but the colours remain the same.

  Panromantic

Experiencing romantic attraction to people of any and all genders, I personally am panromantic.

Source: Sodahead

This is the pansexual flag, but the colours remain the same.

  Poly-romantic

Experiencing romantic attraction to multiple but not all genders, not to be confused with bisexuality and pansexuality.


Source: Zazzle
This is the polysexual flag, but the colours remain the same.



 Thanks for reading! Comments, questions, and feedback are appreciated, if you want to talk, my contact info is in my about me post.

  Disclaimer: I do not condone or endorse anything on the websites I have cited, I got the flags from a quick Google image search.


 


2 comments:

  1. So what is the difference between biromantic, panromantic, and polyromantic? It seems to be the difference in the number of genders. But what do you mean by genders, then? I was under the impression there are only two...

    Interesting info.

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    1. I am so sorry it has taken me so long to reply, Amanda! I will answer your question to the best of my ability, I am by no means an expert :) There is actually a spectrum of genders; from non-binary (which means they do identify in the gender binary, they generally use they/them pronouns), to genderfluid (using any pronouns they feel suit them: he/him, she/her, they/them). Gender is a fluid thing, much like sexuality and some people don't identify within the binary system (which is male and female, in fact many people feel that there really is no binary genders). So a bironantic or bisexual person would like people from two or more genders, and/or someone with no gender. Same with pan and polyromantic sexual, pan people like people of any and all genders. I hope this cleared things up and answered your questions. If you have any more questions don't hesitate to ask and I will definitly reply sooner :)

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